tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306791997229438334.post2605804920128342902..comments2016-04-10T09:37:42.161-04:00Comments on A Preacher's Life: Till Minor Problems Do Us PartCarlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02364359777833029248noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306791997229438334.post-82129487583056846822010-11-06T08:56:30.966-04:002010-11-06T08:56:30.966-04:00I appreciate this blog post, Carl. Adultery is a ...I appreciate this blog post, Carl. Adultery is a symptom of an already bad marriage, not something that causes or doctors a bad marriage. A person looking to cheat on their spouse is looking for a way out, not looking to save their marriage, and I'm surprised anyone would advocate adultery as a viable way to save a marriage--"I'm sleeping with this other woman for us, baby."--that just doesn't make any sense. Perhaps for those who are about to get married, maybe it would be a good thing to get a written copy of the vows of both bride and groom to have handy so they each can take them out periodically and remind themselves of the commitments made. For those who are presently married, perhaps it would be good to sit down today with spouse and recommit to one another face to face, reaffirming and building on the original commitment. It's become cliche and "corny" to quote 1 Corinthians 13 in a wedding ceremony, but that's the Holy Spirit's definition of true love, and when a couple begins there in their understanding of love and really take it to heart, it only leads to a stronger, more stable marriage. Adultery does nothing but work to destroy a marriage.James Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09314179191397057203noreply@blogger.com